By Richard Grossman MD | 11 May 2025
Population Matters-USA

When I was very young my sister and I had a baby sitter who was the youngest of 22 children. Our mother said that Rose was servant class and grew up in a castle in England. Her duty was to get up very early and light the fires in the fireplaces. Rose had no children herself, but was a loving nanny.
The largest family with whom I helped the birth had 12 children. The mother requested a cesarean because that was the best way she could get her tubes tied discretely.
Large families seem to be passé–raising kids is too expensive, except for a billionaire.
I have learned a lot about pronatalism from Nandita Bajaj, the executive director of Population Balance. I think that pronatalism has always been a strong force in society, but primarily for women. Now that my eyes are opened to seeing it, I’m more aware of it.
Pronatalism is on the rise to counter the growing push for gender equality. A great article by Nandita Bajaj.
The Rise of Pronatalism https://t.co/mkpowyxxpL via @ChurchAndStateN
— Church and State (@ChurchAndStateN) May 12, 2025
Beware of Pronatalism
Elon Musk has stated “…population collapse due to low birth rates is a much bigger risk to civilization than global warming.” Musk is doing his part to prevent collapse—so far, he’s fathered 14 children with multiple women.
Musk is concerned because people are having smaller families and that we’re living longer. Apparently, he worries that there will not be enough workforce to do all the labor that society needs to continue. My interpretation is that he fears that the supply of cheap labor will diminish.
This is reminiscent of the mudsill theory. The “mudsill” is the lowest part of a building, and also refers to the lowest class of people in a society. It is the belief that there always has been, and must be, an underclass to work for the upper classes. This theory was developed by a South Carolina state senator in 1858 as an effort to justify slavery. I fear that Musk and many politicians live in a billionaire’s bubble, and that they believe that the rest of us are needed to support them. They are unaware of the needs and wishes of normal people let alone the importance of the natural world.
ELON MUSK ON DECLINING BIRTH RATE:
"What ended most civilizations is low birth rate. An extended period of prosperity causes birth rates to plummet. When a society is under stress, brith rate increases."
"I don't have a perfect solution, but we need to bring this to conscious… pic.twitter.com/10segHI1NL
— Autism Capital (@AutismCapital) October 19, 2024
A new magazine for women, Evie, stresses classical femininity vs. feminism. Along with Evie you can get an app “28 Cycle, Period, Wellness” which women can use to predict ovulation—but shouldn’t. It is unreliable at predicting a woman’s fertile time, and should only be used with another contraceptive method. However, Evie’s originators also push “Birth Control Detox”, which contains several expensive herbs. They want you to fear hormonal birth control. I wonder how many subscribers to Evie who use “28” end up with unintended pregnancies.
Much that women have to control their fertility is being taken away. There are many barriers now including pressure to have more children. They distrust contraception (even though it’s much safer than childbearing). Furthermore, access to safe abortion care is absent in many states—and in La Plata County.
Durango is not immune from these pressures. Planned Parenthood has closed the clinic where I worked for 40 years. A person can get telemedicine services elsewhere and receive the abortion medication by mail. For later or procedural abortions, the nearest clinic is a 4+ hour drive.
In addition to performing abortions for unintended pregnancies, (including some that resulted from rape or incest), PP offered many other reproductive health services for women and men. These included: diagnosis and treatment of infections, prescribing birth control and cancer screening such as Pap smears. All these medical services were discounted in price or free, depending on a person’s ability to pay.
I remember Claire, an older woman, whom I met at PP. She had had a Pap suspicious for cancer and thought she couldn’t pay for a private doctor. At my office I did a procedure at no charge that showed that she had an unusual type of cancer. She had radical surgery in Denver and was cured. Without her Pap at PP she would have died from the cancer.
While Republicans continue their assault on reproductive rights, last week I was proud to introduce the Convenient Contraception Act, which would expand access to birth control nationwide.
Contraception is essential health care that must remain readily available — period. pic.twitter.com/n2sYh5JbBj
— Lauren Underwood (@LaurenUnderwood) April 30, 2025
One of the best times for a woman to start birth control is in the hospital, after giving birth. In addition to placing an IUD postpartum, it is easy to do a tubal ligation after birth by cesarean, if that is what a woman wants. Both of these are not possible at Mercy Hospital because of the pronatalist Ethical and Religious Directives for Catholic Health Care Services.
Although Colorado is a safe haven for abortion care, La Plata County doesn’t reflect that. In addition, there is increasing social pressure to have children. My fear is that politics, medical care and religion have gotten mixed up, as opposed to the spirit of our Constitution’s Bill of Rights: “Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof….” The Bill of Rights says nothing against the president establishing a religion.
Reprinted with permission from the author.
Richard Grossman became concerned about overpopulation in high school and chose a medical path to work in the field. He practiced gynecology and obstetrics, including abortion care, for 40 years in Southwest Colorado. Now retired, he writes a monthly essay on aspects of human population. If you like his blog, www.population-matters.org, you can subscribe using the form at the bottom of the page.
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